It takes approximately 3 seconds to check the time, and if you check time around 10 times a day, you will spend 10 days of your lifetime in just looking at your watch.

Everyone has his own thought on this famous line ” There are two kinds of people in this world “, and today I discovered mine.

“There are two kinds of people in this world, Those who Lead and those who follow.”

So, Dare to make your own decisions and Take initiative.

Lamarck said ” Those who don’t adapt changes with time, Don’t Survive.” I don’t know if science world has accepted that or not, but business world have to.

- Viv Singh

Part I: The Problem

It happens to everyone, sometimes you want to be a special person for someone YOU really care about, someone who is very special for YOU. You try to get the same attention, same emotions, same CARE from him/her, You try hard but fail.

That’s what I call, Being Nobody for Somebody.

Part II: The Analysis

Is it not the same situation where you want something you don’t have ( or may be Can’t have ) and you choose to ignore things you already have.
You choose to ignore all the people who care about you and divert all your attention to someone who don’t care about you at all.
Reason behind not getting the same attention may be anything, His/Her liking, disliking, mindset, situation, attitude, confusion or whatever but that’s not the point here, the point is that you are choosing to ignore everything you have for something you don’t have.

That’s what I call ” I want it because I don’t have it, and may be I will forget it once I get it. “

Part III: The Conclusion

As Ben Stein said ” The first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: Decide what you want. ”

So, It’s great(and must) to be Nobody for Somebody, It gives you “Reasons to Live” and “Dreams to follow”, and definitely gives you a chance to become a better person day by day, all you need to do is, Keep it constructive.

You make choices, which don’t actually work for you
You make choices, which are sometimes imposed on you
You make choices, even if you like them or not
You make choices, even if you have to ignore better options

That’s life, there is nothing you can do about it, because you don’t actually have any choice

Every question comes with a fixed answer most of the times, and a lot of other answers too, but only to confuse you, to make decisions complicated

The best thing you can do here is SAVE YOUR TIME, don’t waste it in finding alternative when you know they are not.

- Viv Singh

Heart is the finest creation of god, but it comes with a mind to control it. Its all about making a perfect balance between what you want and what is practical.

- Viv Singh